I'm shredding my "To Do List" notebook (yes, it encompasses an entire notebook), and I'm deleting all of my 200+ emails from my inbox (including the 80 that I haven't read yet).
Why am I doing something so crazy?
Well, because I'm losing it. I am being overcome by the "to do list" blues, micromanaging my life to the 'nth degree, and succumbing to a life of task after task after task.
If you've known me for, oh, I don't know...about 10 seconds...you know that I'm extremely organized. I probably make people uncomfortable with just how organized I can be. Looking for a spice at my house? Well, just resort to the list posted inside the cabinets...you can find your cinnamon on shelf 2, and your tarragon on shelf 1 (in the back - because they are alphabetized - but you knew that, right?). Wondering where to throw your dirty towels? Why, in the laundry basket LABELED "Towels", silly! Six different baskets all labeled to p-e-r-f-e-c-t-i-o-n! Whites, darks, delicates, sheets, towels, and even workout clothes don't have to fraternize with each other - except on those often occasions that Troy forgets that white basic tees are not washed the same as white workout tees, and hence don't belong in the same basket together. And if you're ever at my house and need a book to read, you can find workout, nutrition, and activity-related books (kayaking, hiking, cycling, etc) on the shelves in the gym....fiction in the tv cabinet in my office...and all nonfiction on the shelf in the living room. Bibles and other religious related readings are on the 2nd shelf in the living room.
This sort of perfection in all things organized does not come easy. It requires an entire notebook dedicated to not forgetting to do a single thing. Everything that needs to be done gets put on the list. Big things like "pay electric bill"....to small things like "get red ink for estimate stamp." Really. If it needs to get done, it gets put on the list. Whether its personal, like "get eyebrows waxed" or business related, like "follow up on so-and-so's late payment" or volunteer related, like "order more singlets." Nothing is too insignificant to make the list.
And therein lies the problem.
The list is consuming me. Not only do I write everything down, but I also really in my heart of hearts believe that I'm going to get it all done...one day...this week. Every week is the same...more stuff added...a few things completed...and constant defeat that I didn't get it all done. I go to bed thinking about the list....I wake up thinking about the list...when I leave the house, I might forget my phone, but I NEVER forget the list.
I got an email from RC yesterday and it said this: "Life if short. The whole reason you left the base [my old job with the Air Force] was supposed to be to enjoy a better quality of life. I think that should include some running :)"
I've thought about that email all day. What is the quality of life that I want? When I die do I want people to say "Wow, that Amy, she sure could get a lot done!" Or would I rather them say "Wow, hate to see her go, but man she led a great life!"
The path that I'm on right now...the one where I'm OCD (there, I said it) about the details...the one where fun doesn't exist because while I'm supposed to be doing something fun, I'm constantly thinking about all the other things I should be doing...the one where Troy just gets sick and tired of hearing me talk about how sick and tired I am...yeah, that path? Well, it sucks!
It reminded me that some of the BEST runs I've ever had, are the ones where I don't have anything else to do. I haven't had one THOSE kind of runs since I left the base. And yes, I know being the owners wife does make me a lot more responsible for many more things...but it doesn't have to always be about "what else can I get done?" Sometimes it can just be about making things happen within realistic means, with realistic time frames. Heck, Troy's been running this show for 11 years without me and he's the most unorganized person I've ever met (okay, not the "most" but pretty darn close). And guess what? His life? Totally stress free. He doesn't sweat the details or get bogged down with time management. He just does what's right, right now, and moves on. I bet all of his runs are BEST runs ever.
So, in an effort to get my life back...do things that are FUN and enjoy them at the same time...and just stop worrying about the details, I'm getting rid of the list. Starting over. At square one. I'm going to try it for a week...no list...no details...if it needs to get done, I'll do it right then or not at all. Hopefully, the week will turn into two weeks and three weeks, and before I know it...well, it will be a lifetime of being "list-free."